Pastor's Blog

The visitation with the Myrtle Bowden family will take place tomorrow (Friday) night, 4/7.  Times to be announced.  The celebration of life service will take place on Saturday, April 8.  Time to be announced.

Everything (classes, services, egg hunts, et cetera) previously scheduled for our campus on Saturday has now been cancelled in order to give our complete attention to the service for Myrtle Bowden.  Please help us pass the word to as many folks as you can.

The arrangements for Katelyn Johnson’s maternal grandmother are pending but everything will most likely take place on Monday, April 10.  I will update as soon as I hear the definite arrangements.

Pray for these families as they walk through their respective valleys.

It is 5:00AM and I am heading to Sammy & Myrtle’s home as Myrtle passed from this life around 4:30 this morning.  Pray for the Bowden family.

Yesterday afternoon around 4:30PM, Katelyn Johnson’s maternal grandmother passed from this life.  Pray for the Hill family.

Our student ministry will be hosting a meal today following the morning and evening service.  Menu is potato soup, salad, roll and cookie.  Cost is eight dollars for an adult plate and six dollars for a child’s plate.  All proceeds go to help our students attend camp in June.  Cheap meal for a good cause!

Robert Baria will have the second, and final, part of his nerve procedure done this Friday.  He has been pain free since having part one done.  Pray that things will continue to go well for Robert!

Michelle Fore’s mother is basically bedridden at the present time.  It is going to take a couple of weeks for the radiation treatment to be fully effective.  Pray for Michelle’s mother and the family during this time.

Myrtle remains at home being lovingly cared for by her family.  She remains resolute in her fight!  A lady of great faith.  Keep praying for Myrtle, Sammy and family.

Terrel Brooks remains at home but his oxygen levels are not consistent.  I spoke to Nanette via the phone yesterday and they will see a doctor tomorrow.  Hopefully, Terrel will be approved for at home oxygen.  Keep praying!

Obviously, Katelyn Johnson’s grandmother remains on hospice and in need of our prayer support.

Dale Ellerman arrived at his mother’s home yesterday.  He will be there for several days.  Again, a huge thank you to Keith & Aninha for their kindnesses to Dale.  Keep praying for Dale.

Please continue to pray for Miss Vinnie’s son, Buddy.  He is at home but is not jumping fences.  Also, pray for Miss Vinnie’s granddaughter who is battling a hereditary disease.

Bro. Abel will be back in the dentist’s chair this morning for more work in his mouth.  Pray for this procedure and for his drive home.

My Mama was discharged from the hospital yesterday.  She is a bit feeble right now.  Pray for my brother and his wife to have wisdom as to the next step in caring for Mama.  As I have said many times, Eddie & Sue are awesome caregivers to Mama.  I am thankful.

Regular schedule on our campus today.

The classes/services scheduled for this Saturday, 4/8, will take place regardless of the weather.  We will meet as a staff this morning to map out an alternate plan for Saturday’s activities in the event of rain.

Two services this Sunday – 8:00AM & 10:00AM.  Drinks and refreshments in between the services.

I pray that you will have a great Wednesday with Jesus.

I was doing some online reading this past Friday night, 3/31, when I came across the following article by Thom S. Rainer.  Personally, I liked what Rainer wrote and wanted to share it with our nine readers of the blog.  Here is goes:

You’ve been with your church for a while now. Something is now urging you to leave the church. We will not get into evaluating your reasons. Let’s just say you have made the decision, or you are close to making that decision.

Let’s assume you are not moving to another location. You are leaving your church because you think you should make this exit.

While I do not want to judge you or argue with you, would you consider reading the rest of this article? Would you look at the following seven considerations before you make the decision final?

1. Make certain you have prayed about the decision. It is not a move to be taken lightly. Ask God to check your heart to see if the prompting is His or your own.

2. Ask yourself if you are making the decision because of personal preferences. Perhaps the sermon seemed too long. Maybe the music is not the perfect blend that you like. Still yet, maybe you have decided “you are not being fed” spiritually. That is a common reason given by exiting members. Please know, though, the next church you attend will not meet all of your preferences and desires either. Church membership in its truest biblical form is self-sacrificing and forgiving (see 1 Corinthians 12 and 13).

3. If you are using the exit as an escape to quit churchgoing altogether, please don’t do it. We have seen church members, elders, and deacons leave churches saying one thing but dropping out of church life completely. Please remember that God gave us the local church as His plan A for His mission, and He did not give us a plan B.

4. Understand that your decision will hurt many people. In fact, such decisions are one of pastors’ greatest hurts. Many take it personally. Others in the church are discouraged and confused when members, particularly active members, leave the church.

5. Please do not leave the church if you haven’t reconciled with those with whom you have conflict. Jesus was clear and unwavering on this matter: “So if you are presenting a sacrifice at the altar in the Temple and you suddenly remember that someone has something against you, leave your sacrifice there at the altar. Go and be reconciled to that person. Then come and offer your sacrifice to God” (Matthew 5:24, NLT).

6. Don’t leave with complaints and criticisms. Such behavior is not good for the Kingdom, and it certainly reflects poorly on you. And by all means, keep your negativity off social media.

7. If you still decide to leave, give your pastor a good and honest reason why you are doing so. Don’t leave in a huff of silence. Don’t give a reason that is not the true reason. Your pastor has been your shepherd. Your pastor likely has made sacrifices for you of which you are not aware. It would be cruel and unbiblical to walk out with no explanation or a bad explanation.

Obviously, I believe that dropping out of your church should be rare and biblically reasoned. I am not questioning your motive or judging your heart. I am simply asking you to consider the seven points I just made.

Thank you for taking the time to read these words. May God bless you. And may you truly be in His will.

(Thom S. Rainer is the founder and CEO of Church Answers, an online community and resource for church leaders. Prior to founding Church Answers, Rainer served as president and CEO of LifeWay Christian Resources. Before coming to LifeWay, he served at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary for twelve years where he was the founding dean of the Billy Graham School of Missions and Evangelism. He is a 1977 graduate of the University of Alabama and earned his Master of Divinity and Ph.D. degrees from The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary.)

Keith & Aninha are traveling to Birmingham today and will bring Dale Ellerman home (to his mother’s house) this afternoon.  Obviously, Dale is doing better thus the discharge from the hospital.  Pray for traveling mercies and for Dale’s recovery.

Myrtle Bowden met with the doctor yesterday and another appointment has been scheduled for 4/17.  In the meanwhile, Myrtle is focusing on feeling better and resting as much as possible.  Keep praying for Myrtle, Sammy & family.

Katelyn Johnson’s maternal grandmother, Mrs. Hill, has been placed on hospice care.  Pray for her, the nurses involved and the entire family.

Also, keep praying for the others for whom we have been praying for recently.  Prayer changes things!

Our work day this past Saturday was a huge success.  As I have mentioned earlier, we did not have a record number of participants but the ones who came did so with a mind to work!  The hedges have been trimmed, new flowers have been planted, the front of the auditorium has been cleaned and the restrooms in the auditorium are sparkling now!  Probably a hundred plus squash, tomatoe, and pepper plants were planted in the church garden.  I was thankful that some of our long term family members were joined by a good number of our newer family members.  Good stuff!  Thank the Lord!

Eddie Albritton asked if he could look at my zero turn mower on Sunday.  Took him to the shed, started the engine and all seemed well.  However, Eddie went back to the shed yesterday afternoon while I was in Huntsville and now tells me that my mower has died!  He has offered to “help” me get it up and running away.  He has about eight thousand reasons for wanting to help.  Killing me!

John Milton Ladnier has been helping me and I noticed beans and corn have burst through the ground rather nicely.  How are the twins and their help?  Are you serious!

Regular schedule on our campus tomorrow morning and evening.

It is shortly after 1:00AM so this will be the first of two regular entries today.  I “may” also include a third entry from an article I read last Friday.

Thank you to each person who prayed for Mama.  So many folks sent messages – unreal!  Mama did have a “small” heart attack that was at the end of the three stents she go back in 2012.  However, the doctor said because of her age he sees no reason to do anything other than tweak her medicines which he has done.  We are very thankful to God for this good news.

Lisa and I left Huntsville at 6:00PM and arrived home at 12:20AM.  It was a long twenty hours.  We have so much for which to be thankful!  God is good!

It is shortly after 12:30PM on Monday, 4/3.  The medical folks feel that Mama may actually still be having a heart attack per the various tests.  So, the doctor is moving her to Huntsville Hospital with the hopes of doing a heart cath late this afternoon and then they will decide what is next.  Lisa and I will decide our next move once Mama gets to Huntsville.  We are simply waiting on the ambulance to come transport her.  Thank you for checking on her and for the prayers.

This will be short and sweet – explanation coming.

Terrel Brooks was taken to the hospital by ambulance last night.  Low oxygen and low blood pressure.  They have sent him home and a nurse will see him this morning and they will set him up for oxygen at home.  Keep praying for Terrel & Marie.

Bill Kendrick was not able to attend our services yesterday.  Keep praying for Bill as he recovers from home.  Pray for Debbie as she provided care during this recovery time.

I do not have an update on Michelle Fore’s mother but do ask you to join me in continuing to pray for her and the family.

Dale Ellerman is schedule to come home tomorrow.  Keith & Aninha will travel to Birmingham to bring Dale home.  Continue to pray for Dale.

Sammy & Myrtle have an appointment with the oncologist today.  Pray for wisdom for all involved.

At 2:00AM my brother, Eddie, called to confirm that our Mama has suffered a heart attack.  How severe?  Unknown at this point in time.  She is being hospitalized and the doctor says a plan will be in place by morning.  If needed, she will be moved to Huntsville Hospital.  I do not think this is a “life or death” situation at this point but her fifth favorite child and his wife are quickly making ready to leave as Mama is eight-four years old.  Pray for Mama and pray for Lisa and me to have traveling mercies.

The church auditorium will be open today from 4:00PM until 7:00PM for a time of prayer.  Come and go.  The West side door will be open.

Bro. Jerry, Bro. Abel, Bro. Dylan and our nine deacons stand ready to assist with any ministries needs that may arise in my absence.  We “plan” to be home tonight but that is not written in stone.

If you need to contact me, text Lisa at (251) 259 8072.  Her phone is always on while mine is the total opposite.  Just FYI.

I wanted to be more detailed in my thanks to those who worked at the church the past Saturday but suffice it to say a huge “thank you!” for now.  You guys did an awesome job!

Regular schedule on our campus this Wednesday morning and evening.

I pray that you will have a great Monday with Jesus.